Change in our society begins in our homes!

A friend came to my house for coffee, we sat down and talked about life. After a while I interrupted the conversation and said to him, ′′I’m going to wash the dishes, I’ll be right back.”
He looked at me like I told him he was going to build a spaceship. So he said to me with admiration and a little stumped, ′′Glad you help your wife, I rarely help mine because when I do she never thank me. Last week I washed the floor and she didn’t even tell me thank you.”

I sat back down with him again and explained to him that I don’t ′′help′′ my wife. Actually, my wife doesn’t need help, she needs a partner, a teammate. I’m her home partner… and due to that, all functions are divided, which is not “help” with household chores.

I don’t “help” my wife clean the house, because I also live in it and I need to clean it too.

I don’t “help” my wife cook, because I also want to eat and I need to cook too.

I don’t “help” her washing dishes after eating, because I use these dishes too.

I don’t “help” my wife with kids, because they are mine too and it’s my duty to be a father.

I don’t “help” my wife wash, extend, fold, and put away laundry, because it’s mine and my kids too.

I don’t give a “helping hand” at home, I’m part of it.

Then with respect I asked my friend when was the last time after his wife finished cleaning the house, doing laundry, changing the bed sheets, bathing the kids, cooking, organizing, etc.. and did he say: “thank you?”
I mean a real thank you, like, “Wow, baby!! You’re amazing!!”

Does this all seem absurd? Does it sound weird to you? When, once in your life, you cleaned the floor, you expected at least an excellence award with great glory… why? Haven’t you ever thought about that?

Maybe, because for you, macho culture taught you that everything is a woman’s task.

Maybe you’ve been taught that all this should be done without you having to move a finger.

So praise her as you would like to be praised, likewise, with the same intensity. Hold her hand and behave like a true companion, and assume your part, don’t behave like a guest who simply comes to eat, sleep, shower and satisfy sexual needs… feel at home, in your home.

Change in our society begins in our homes, teaching our children the true sense of fellowship!

So, A High School Classmate Posted This on Facebook…The Greatness of Being Humane!

Thomas Bell April 19 @ 8:58 pm

Straight from the horses, Errr In this case ,Eagles mouth ! My wife tells a nice story… my girls are heroes! 🙏🏻❤️🤘😍🤘


Dawn Bell April 18 @ 9:08 pm

I hope everyone had a beautiful Easter Sunday and Passover Seder! My daughter and I spent quality time with mimi, pop and David… We laughed a lot! So grateful for the belly aches!

The pictures attached was a crazy, amazing, very nerve-racking and fulfilling adventure Holiday evening for Ava and I.

Unfortunately, we saw a bald eagle being hit by a car 9:30 at night. It was left on the road to die. I just knew this beautiful creature, laying in the road, was our American emblem.. our mascot of freedom …

Therefore, instinct took over. I immediately pulled over and ran to his rescue. Thankfully, I had a long sweater which I covered his head, body (wings) able to pick him up and put this gorgeous raptor in the trunk of my car. All with the help of my amazing daughter, Ava!

I called 911, however, they were just as stumped and amazed like we were. I googled a 24 hour animal hospital in the area Newton 24 Animal hospital


They provided us with a few phone numbers to provide the help Mr. Bald Eagle needed immediately. The 1st number we called was Avian Wildlife Center in Wantage. The moment we called, Giselle, answered one ring at 10 o’clock at night. Giselle was very helpful and anxiously awaited our arrival. Her main goal was to help this beautiful creature immediately!!!! Avian Wildlife Center has amazing people volunteering their time for all. Please look at their amazing Facebook page with incredible rescues stories. Giselle is my hero!!

Our beautiful, big, male Bald Eagle knew we were there to help him. I spoke with Giselle (sanctuary) today. Mr. Bald Man is alert, however, has not been able to stand up on his own, he has a badly broken right wing, and a couple of broken toes with deep scrapes.

The sanctuary feels there are other issues going on within his body. Yet, they do not want to move him considering the shock he’s been through already. When they feel Mr. Bald Man is strong enough, he’ll be moved to the Raptors Trust tomorrow for x-rays and a thorough examination.

I’m getting very emotional posting this… So please, please pray he’s going to get through this painful ordeal! Pray he will meet his mate again and raise beautiful Bald Eagle babies.

Side note, I want to thank everybody who responded to my husbands post last night. I want to thank you all for your help, your advice and your words of compassion! It meant everything to my daughter and I!

Please pray this beautiful, beautiful raptor, king of the sky, emblem of our country will get through this!

Thank you 💞


Sadly things did not fair very well for the Eagle…OUR NATIONAL SYMBOL

Dawn Bell April 21 @ 6:35 pm


Mr. Baldy, Mr. hero and what what I’ve been calling him is our miracle.

Giselle, from Avian Wildlife Center, traveled to Raptor Trust this morning. He had a full examination with x-rays this morning. His right wing was broken so badly that the blood vessels from his elbow to a main artery was compromised. Therefore, restricting blood flow to the rest of his body and his wing.

Our majestic bald eagle our American Mascot our Emblem of Freedom went over the rainbow bridge today. The vet and reps (NJ state) evaluated the x-rays and his examination. They decided it be best he makes his journey to heaven.

Again, thank you to all who expressed compassion, kindness and love for this journey… He’s in a better place.

Yet, I really wish he was soaring high above us all right now!!! 🦅😇😭🌈🙏🏻

Much love


Godspeed & God Bless to Dawn & Ava for going out of their way to help an fatally injured Eagle!

Our hearts and our prayers to you two!

A Real Queen!

Had to share, found this on my LinkedIN feed: 💕 The Girl in Blue is the True Epitome of what a Queen Truly Is! She was crowned Homecoming Queen By her Senior class….but took the crown off her head and placed it on the Girl in Pink (escorted by her Daddy) who lost her Mama to Cancer the Morning of Homecoming! It showed Marvelous Grace, Humbleness, Friendship, Beauty & Love!!! Way To Go Sweet Girl…..we could all take a lesson in “Loving Thy Neighbor” through you! 💕. #love #share

cover your body

This girl bought an iPhone,when the father saw it, he asked her “what was the 1st thing you did after buying the phone”?

She said “I put an anti-scratch sticker and bought a cover for the phone”.

Did someone force you to do so? She said “No”.
The father asked her”did you think it was an insult to the manufacturer?” She said “No that it was recommended that a cover be used on the phone”.
Did you cover it because it was cheap and ugly?
“No daddy, actually I covered it because I did not want any damage to it or what would devalue the phone”.

“When you put the cover,did it reduce the iPhone beauty?”

“Daddy I think it looks better and worth it for the protection it gives to my new iPhone”.
The father looked lovingly at his daughter and said”if I had asked you to cover your body which is much more precious than your iphone,would you have readily agreed?”.

She was mute….

Indecent dressing and exposure of your body reduces your value and respect.
Am I talking to somebody???